The world is full of mothers and not all of them fit the stereotypical role model. Sure there are still plenty of June Cleavers out in the world with minivans and pearls, but plenty of nontraditional mothers are stepping up and getting the job done as well.
Most individuals with children will agree that nurturing and raising a child is one of the most challenging and rewarding things you can do. Nothing is predictable and everything can, and does, change in an instant. Mothers are generally considered to be the all-knowing and all-powerful being in a household with the power to assign a timeout and magically heal boo-boos with a kiss at the same time.
Mother’s Day
For their trouble, mothers are occasionally rewarded with hugs and kisses, but one day is reserved for making mothers feel special – Mother’s Day. But should Mother’s Day just be limited to those who fit the traditional maternal model? Surely we can not hold to this standard in the present day when a family might just as easily have two mothers or no traditional mother at all.
The modern mother may be a grandmother, a sister, an aunt or even a father. As families are changing over time, holidays must embrace all forms of motherhood. If a grandmother is raising her grandchildren, she is essentially their mother. If an older sister is taking an active role in ensuring younger siblings are cared for properly, she is acting as their mother. If a family has only a father, then he is not only the dad, but fulfilling all the roles of motherhood as well.
What is a mom but a soft place to land when the day is rough or you need support? This role may be filled by the woman who gave birth to or lovingly adopted a child or anyone else who has stepped in to take over the role. Holidays and love should be spread around to any and everyone who deserves it.
Show Your Love this Mother’s Day
As kindergarten teachers all over the world know, a handmade craft or card is one of the most powerful messages of love a child can give on Mother’s Day. This bears true for adults as well. A card can be selected from the store in a heartbeat, but one with a special hand drawn picture or personally composed poem takes a great deal more time and energy. The time invested in a piece of artwork or prose, frame-worthy or not, is a true gift of love.
If flowers or candy don’t say enough for the special moms in your life this year, consider something more personal. Selecting the perfect gift to add to a special collection or with a deeper meaning speaks volumes about the affection you have for a mom, but may not show the rest of the year.
If you are helping children prepare for Mother’s Day, consider purchasing a kit of clay or plaster of paris and making handprints. Kids love to get dirty and little fingers, cheerfully painted by the youngest artists in the house, are great as wall hangings or display objects. Special drawings or love notes will be cherished forever and there are never enough hugs and kisses to go around. This year simply shower those who mother you with all the love, time and attention you can.