Creating a baby is relatively simple from a man’s perspective. Becoming a father, however, is much more complicated and rewarding. Fathers have a very special place in a child’s life and the memories created in a first year are some of the most poignant and lasting. That being said, surviving the first year of fatherhood is a bit more complicated than changing a few diapers and playing peek-a-boo.

Your Emotions

When a baby is brand new, most fathers are ready to burst with pride. The birth of their child is almost overwhelming with emotion and more than a few have cried. After the wonder and shock have worn off, other emotions flood in. Worry, doubt and frustration battle with joy, amazement and fascination.

It is perfectly normal to be amazed at your little one and ready to burst with love while at the same time completely exasperated and frustrated when she won’t take a bottle or quit crying. To handle the rougher emotions, simply focus on the positive ones. Take a break to clear your head and come back ready to enjoy your baby even more than before.

Even the most patient and experienced parents are frustrated occasionally by their child’s antics. Be aware that the more experience you have and the more you get to know your baby the easier the rough spots will be. You’ll know how to handle them and have more patience.

Your Games

Fathers are prime candidates for game creations. Something about playtime bonds babies and dads together. Be creative and don’t be afraid to play with your baby. Play games and even roughhouse safely and gently with your little boy or little girl. Don’t save loud and rambunctious games for boys or assume only little girls like to draw and color.

Be loose, and enjoy your child. Make faces, sing songs, dance like a fool and play the time-tested father games. Just remember that it is not safe to throw an infant in the air. Their little necks are not strong enough to handle the jarring landing, even if you catch them gently.

Your Love

Fathers love their children immensely. Too many are afraid to show that love fully and many regret it down the road. Shower your little one with attention and affection. If you have to work long hours, make the weekends and evenings count. Take the baby out alone to enjoy her fully without Mom trying to take over. Encourage your wife to run errands without the baby so you can bond and learn all the little things that make your little one special.

Don’t be afraid to love your little one with your whole being and to show that love constantly. It will not make you seem weak or spoil your baby. After all, your little one already loves you.